Saturday, May 29, 2010

Dating, Questions and the Giving of your heart.

 K.  this is for you.  We've had lots of discussions about this lately. K. thought we talked very openly about much in the car.  Well not nearly as much as we'll be wanting to cover.   Poppa used to say, be careful who you "date" one of those guys you'll end up marrying.  You are a bright girl and love God.  You have a good head on your shoulders that naturally reasons and buried beyond that is the romantic heart of not only your earthy but more importantly your heavenly Father.  We are thankful you do not wear your heart on your sleeve.  Protect that heart and save it for just one.



Pastor and Mrs. Wilson have published these. So here's some questions we will be working through.  And also for those guys who would be brave enough to dare hope for you.  These are some questions you might want to ask of yourself.  If he doesn't ask questions.  He IS not worth his weight in gold.  You remember the chapel story right?! Keep asking questions.  Remember pachooktrenie toya barza ba dile bo Hoda, la serie, wo la gert. He must possess the character strong enough for you to respect and follow for a lifetime.   Who was really interviewing who and it better be both doing the interviewing  or it just ain't that likely to end well.

2 comments:

vyktrhi said...

hi baby...what is the chapel story? I love you bunches and miss you by the way,...

EJN said...

The Chapel story is a reference to E & I'[s beginnings. Before we started dating, we met for 2 weeks each night at the school chapel for 2 or 3 hours and talked about every issue, view, whatever, you could imagine - to see how our life goals lined up. At the end, of the two weeks, E. asked me to start dating with the intention of marriage. We always tease about who was really doing the interviewing.